Memorial weekend was a long break from work for me. It started with me taking a personal day so I could chaperone Piglet’s first big field trip. We went to the Portland Children’s Museum. It was utter chaos, but also so much fun. Piglet had the time of his life! I was in charge of a great little group. The three boys played really well together and I didn’t have problems with runners like some other groups. One of the boys insisted on holding my hand the whole time. They were such sweeties!
Saturday, Match and I had one of our rare date nights. I always like to time those around my hair appointments, so I don’t waste that salon do! My hair stylist is the absolute best, and she always makes me feel so confident when I leave. We went to karaoke, and it was such a great night. Besides my work conference, it has been a long time since I sang for a group. I loved this bar because all the people there were really listening to the music. There were a lot of great singers, and it was an honor to be a part of it all.
Sunday we spent the day organizing and relaxing at home, and then Memorial day we went to a nearby park. It was an awesome family weekend, and it felt good to get that quality time with my boys.
Piglet is 6 years old. 6! Wasn’t I just pregnant with him? Every year I’m amazed at how fast the time flies. This year’s birthday photos really got me. He just looks so grown up these days. I can almost glimpse the man he’s going to be. I’m not going to lie, I’m a little bit in awe. This parenting thing is bittersweet sometimes. I love that he’s growing up, but at the same time, slow down!
There have been so many milestones this year. First year in elementary school. First drop off birthday party with friends, first play date drop offs. He’s learned to read! He has glasses now. He’s playing baseball for the first time. So many firsts. I’m excited to see what year 6 will bring.
He has his first puppy (our last dog was an adult long before he came along), and now he has his first fish, a gift from mama and daddy.
He celebrated his birthday this year with an orca themed birthday party. Match and I had so much fun decorating!
So here’s to you, Piglet. Happy 6th birthday to the coolest kid I have ever known. I love your energy for life, your imagination, the way you love with all your heart, your silly dances, your vocabulary that is sometimes better than mine, the way you rock a costume just because it’s a Friday afternoon, your crazy good climbing skills, how you fall asleep laughing, and all the things that make you my favorite human. You are so loved.
This past week I had the opportunity to go back to an IT work conference with some of my team. I can’t tell you how nice it is to get away and not have some of the responsibilities of daily life. Of course I missed my family, but I think every mama can agree there is just something priceless about not having to take care of anyone but myself for a few days. Ladies, uninterrupted pamper time. I spent so much time getting ready one night, and not once was I interrupted by a puppy needing to pee, a husband asking where something was, or my son asking for a snack. It was magical!
The trip started out with getting to go for a jog with my boss. I don’t talk about work much here on the blog, but I have to say I’m so grateful for him. We have a great working relationship, and we have a lot of fun together. We did a lot of team building during the conference, and had the chance to discuss big picture ideas we have for our team. This was my 3rd time going to this conference, but the first time since I became lead of my team. It gave me that extra boost of confidence, and I felt inspired during the leadership sessions. I’ve been really down the past two weeks, and not feeling at all like myself, and this getaway was exactly what I needed. I felt that spark for my job that I haven’t felt in a long time.
Beyond the work stuff, there was also the night activities, aka partying! This year did not disappoint. There was hatchet throwing (why, I mean there was drinking, this seemed like a terrible idea), archery, beer pong, Virtual Reality, Skeeball, the list goes on. The first night I even did karaoke with a band! I also palled around with a director friend of mine from another district and his team. My team peaced out early both nights, but not this crew. They were crazy! I couldn’t keep up. I definitely paid for it with lack of sleep, but it was worth it. So many funny moments, from being one of the guys enjoying cigars by the firepit and drinking whiskey, to a spontaneous hot tub/swim at 2am!
It was hard to come back to reality after such a fun getaway. The trip reminded me that I really enjoy what I do, and I also enjoy socializing so much. I miss having a group of guy friends to hang out with. I wish sometimes that Match had more buddies, so that we could hang out more. I am so grateful for Match and how understanding he is. He knows I’m a guy’s gal, and he doesn’t get jealous, not even of the late night swim. I can’t tell you how much I appreciate that he lets me be me, 2am bad decisions and all!
Have you ever had the chance to get away for a few days, just check out from being a mama, a wife and all that responsibility and just be yourself? It is amazing how refreshing it is, and how it does make you appreciate all that you have. I wouldn’t want to do that all the time, and I love the life I lead. But I will say, I’m already looking forward to next year!
April is almost over. It’s crazy how time flies these days. What is it about these years that are going by so fast? I wish I could hit pause some days. We had a great Easter with the in-laws. Piglet is still very much a fan of all holidays, and Easter with all the candy was no exception.
It was so nice getting quality time with the in-laws, and they were both more relaxed and mellow than they’ve ever been. It feels like the older Piglet gets, the more enjoyable our visits have become.
In other news, our crazy mischievous puppy has been growing so fast! He enjoyed his grandpawrents visit too!
Little tribute to Roo, the painting I made in her nursery 7 years ago. It was 7 years ago today we said hello and goodbye. Thank you for making me a mama little one. To all the mamas out there who have lost their little ones, you are not alone, and there is no shame in remembering. Forever grateful for the life lessons, baby girl.