A Date Girl’s Fantasy

Sports night: every female’s fantasy. A room full of captive heterosexual men all looking to be distracted during commercial breaks. -Carrie, Sex and the City

I just have to say it: Match is my fantasy man. When I first saw his pictures, I thought he was a hottie.

When I got to know his personality, he became downright sexy. And every day that passing, I think I get more and more attracted to him. Sometimes I get overwhelmed with my daytime fantasies of Match. I’d love to just rush home, throw one of those english saddles on his back and ride him around our bedroom. Too much? 😉 But seriously, I don’t think I’ve ever dated someone who I as physically attracted to as I was emotionally. I know physical attraction isn’t everything, but it separates that line between friendship and something more.

I think that’s the thing that was always lacking from my past relationships. They were so skewed in one direction or the other, attraction wise. Either I was attracted to their personality or their looks, never both. With Match, I am amazed by how balanced my feelings are towards him.

Not only does he rock my world physically, but he’s the other side of the fantasy too. When he says things like, “Is it bad that you’re the only person I want to hang out with most days?” or “Have a good day, love of my life”. Sometimes I feel like there’s no way this guy can be for real, but the way he says those words, and the looks he gives me, I know he’s being completely genuine. Oh, and ladies, yes he does cook dinner and sometimes he even rubs my feet. 🙂

One Comment


    Thanks so much for your comment. I’ve been terrible about writing on the blog. I actually moved across the country and that has been overwhelming. That, and there was no romantic activity whatsoever in my life. But now that I’m 4 weeks into my new life in my new city, there is a tiny whisper. We shall see…

    As for you, wow, I’ve been totally out of the loop! I had no idea you are such a young pup either! I’m 31. You’re just a baby chick. To have found love like this at your age is a true blessing. I was just sitting here thinking, I’m not sure I even know what a real relationship is supposed to look like. It’s certainly a very dim memory…

    When you say you don’t think you’ve ever dated someone who you were as physically attracted to as you were emotionally, I totally get it. I’ve never had the entire package and have often wished I could just take all the men from my past and glue the parts of them I like into one giant whole.

    But I guess that’s what “the one” is all about, huh? He already comes assembled with all the right parts. Or at least the ones that matter most.

    Good for you. I’m thrilled to hear of your happiness. And thanks for not giving up on me. I think I’ll do another entry now!

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